People who hurt People

Why do people think they can lie and it is okay? I am sorry, to have any kind of relationships( friends,  intimate relationships) they all have to have only the truth from day one. Because if one person in the relationship is lying   than there is No relationship, even if the one person is trying hard to form it. Relationships are based on Truths, Not lies. You can try all you both what but the lies are always going to be in between you both. When you tell one lie, than you will have to tell another one, than another one. The lies will get bigger and bigger, until one day the lies will all come out. Than everyone involves gets  hurt worse than if you did not lie to begin with. Lies can escalate into threats and indiscretions in people’s lives. Why can’t people take responsibly for their own actions and words and stop blaming other people. Why does people want to involve people who don’t want to get involved in the situation or situations at hand? Other people have their own problems or situations there are dealing with. Some people have health issues that they don’t need the stress of all the drama that other people what to throw in this world today. People need to take a step back and look at their situation and    look at their own lives and see if they really want to take that road. Some people keep going down the some road over and over again. Lies just don’t hurt you as a person but what about your friends, your family or ( like Reba said in her song), those babies down the hall. Lies put stress on every relationship and may even destroy the relationship.

Lies are not a responsible choose to make for anyone. In the Bible there are Gods laws and They are the TEN COMMANDMENTS. EXODUS 20   :16 “You shall not bear faults witness against your neighbor.” ( faults witness is lying to people)

When I find out that a person lied to my husband or my self, it hurts me to the point I get upset and sometimes even mad enough to where when I am finished with what I have to say to that persons face there is no relationship and there will never be another one between that person and my husband and my self. If a persons lies to us and we find out (depending on the situation) we will remain friends but the trust is gone and they have to earn our trust back. Trust is a very hard thing to earn back in my book because when I give my heart to someone, I give all of it. So when someone breaks it they don’t break a piece, they break the whole heart. Everyone I know, even my husband says, I wear my heart on my sleeve of my shirt. I may do but that’s the way the Lord made me. I am sorry if I stepped on your toes….

Keeping the Faith


7 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. jimlparsons
    Dec 18, 2011 @ 16:04:02

    I know what you mean sis, I was recently in a relationship with a woman that I fell head over heels in love with her. Only to my dismay she was cheating on me with her EX boyfriend. Our relationship was nothing but lies on her behalf. SHE SAID THAT THEY WERE NOT TOGETHER BUT THEY WERE. I was living there and she was sleeping with him behind my back while I was at work. Her EX is a married man and now they are engaged to get married. How bad is that to cheaters together. How many people got hurt out of this, his wife, me, him and of course HER. ALL BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO LIVE AND TELL A BUNCH OF LIES.


  2. Red
    Dec 18, 2011 @ 16:40:23

    This line says it best: Some people have health issues that they don’t need the stress of all the drama that other people what to throw in this world today.

    I wish you had not been hurt.


  3. suehelms
    Dec 18, 2011 @ 17:01:58

    Many people did. I am not the only one. I pray that things will stop.


  4. valentinelogar
    Dec 18, 2011 @ 19:03:02

    Only coming here because the blog is being used to air laundry that is best left outside of the digital market. It is unconscionable that any responsible person would allow and even encourage this to continue when clearly what needed to be said has been. People have their own views and ideas, clearly they are different. That hurt feelings have been turned into a war of lies and slanders aimed only at doing harm is petty. While family has to be supported and friendships often can’t survive a bad affair, using this type of forum for revenge is truly beneath contempt.


    • grantahelms
      Dec 18, 2011 @ 21:55:17

      I agree with you Val. A blog is not the place to air dirty laundry of a personal nature. Though we air laundry everyday, politics, religion, feelings, rants and raves, these are issues to close for comfort for the average blogger. It would would seem logical that the two parties involved, or three in this case, could resolve their differences without involving outside sources. However, some are not mature enough to say ” I’m sorry” and move on. Thank you for your patience. Look forward to better reading, Grant


  5. suehelms
    Dec 18, 2011 @ 20:49:17

    Just blog to let you know this is about myself and a great friend of mine. This is not about anyone else.


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